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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • Personally, I’d relax and just not doomscroll. You two are dating, you’re having fun, you have your whole lives ahead of you. Yeah, your prev BF was a dick, but this new guy ain’t him.

    But I also wouldn’t try and control him, or corner him. He’s a different person. If you were in his shoes, and your bf was monitoring your socials and having people block you, I’d feel a bit unnerved.

    IDC if my SO hangs out with other people or likes raunchy stuff on socials, because we each agreed on a set of rules, and we both follow them. If we are unsure of something, we sit down and talk to each other about it. Communication is key, and it helps us avoid uncomfortable situations or hurt feelings. :)



  • Check out refilleries in your area if you have them. You’ll pay a bit of a premium, but they are usually high quality, local goods and low/no plastic. Usually stuff like soaps, personal care, that sort of thing. They are a godsend if you or someone you know is allergic to fragrance(s) too, as they have a variety of unscented soaps, dishwasher detergent, etc.

    And, you get to bring your own bottles to refill, which is kinda nice if you like to buy in bulk.

    Sugar is gonna be hard to find, since it has to be imported, unless you have sugarbeet farms in your area.