baduhai

Didn’t expect to read someone’s life story in this thread but here we are, that was nice.

dropped a bombshell: she didn’t know how to keep a steady job if she was just going to be following me around the world, moving every few years at the whim of the military

How’s that a bombshell? Sounds reasonable.

she asked if I was okay with her joining the military as well

Oh.

Also, what cross-platform software do you guys use for “lan over the internet”? zerotier? something else?

Tailscale.

Well, it can be both.

Dying.