Lemmy is a giant echo chamber, every time I open I block a community/user or two. And don’t you dare have a differing political opinion to that of the hive mind.

It’s not really a good reddit replacement but if like me you don’t want to install the official reddit app lemmy can be some sort of nicotine patch if you take the time to block all the shit you don’t want to see

I’d rather not need sleep at all, with the option to do it sometimes for skipping time

If you’re keeping the apartment only in your name I think it’s fair only you pay the mortgage, she can pay half of everything else that she does benefit from/has to pay for in her current living situation anyways

Either way this is something you need to talk about with her and see what both of you are comfortable with. Se might not agree to whatever some stranger on lemmy thinks

Get a sleep study done you might need medication or a CPAP